Wednesday, April 13, 2005

As of now: 2.5 days

i have yet to give my logbook to my director, so most probably i'll give it to him on friday, in return for my last cheque and a B grade for ITP.

regarding fy's post and sy's response:

on a personal level, i wouldn't make any moves if the man-object is married or attached, those two statuses spell hands-off to me. i mean, most guys i liked were (are?) attached, so it's just see, no touch. similarly, if i am attached, i wouldn't like it either if some girl made a move on my guy, though if i wouldn't necessarily voice my displeasure - that would depend on which stage we're at in the relationship.

i wish i can say feelings can be stopped, just like closing a lid on a bottle. of course it isn't that easy. yes, i wouldn't make any moves because he is married, but i don't think i'd be able to stop myself from liking him either. however, what happens if he was the one pushing for a relationship despite his wife? the line isn't so clear anymore right? you like him even though he's married, and he's proposing, not marriage, but that you guys get together because he likes you too. so what do you do? would you be able to put a hold on yourself when the time comes? i can only say that i'll cross this line when i come to it.

you see, maybe the person who's coming in between the married couple really didn't mean it, but since ******* likes her and she likes *******... then try try lor... haha. all these love questions are hard to answer. why don't you ask ping? ;) she's older...

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